Gender Issues

For those of you who are wondering, we decided not to find out the sex of the baby. A healthy baby is the most important thing to us, and not finding out is our way of saying that the gender does not matter. I don't want anybody getting overly excited if it's one gender, and disappointed if it's the other - not that I can control how anybody reacts. But for now we would like to focus on what is important without having to deal with all of that.