Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Goodbye, Jake

This has been tough to sit down and write. A little over a week ago now we lost our Jake-dog. He had been in declining health for some weeks with what was probably chronic kidney failure. He was only 8 years old. As it was with Catfish, it is particularly hard to lose a pet at such a young age. We certainly did not expect to lose him so soon. I'm having trouble writing this is no small part because Jake was Tray's dog. Jake followed him everywhere like a shadow. He was cool with me, and protective when I was pregnant with Penny, but mostly I was "she who brings food when Daddy's not here."


Tray always tells the story of meeting Jake. Little known fact: Jake's actual, original name was Bentley. "Bentley" was a Christmas morning gift dog. The couple who bought him soon realized that a lab puppy needs a lot of attention and in the absence of it will chew your house to shreds. They decided to find a new home for him. Tray went to check him out. All the adults were standing in the kitchen talking, "Bentley" came running around the corner, leash in mouth, and ran right up to Tray as if to say, "ok, take me home now." We renamed him Jake and he's been part of our family ever since.



He was a cute little puppy with very sharp teeth. He aggravated Lindy to no end. The way he lapped water out of his dish was one of the most adorable things I've ever seen (babies included). He knew how to fetch a stick on the very first throw. I had to teach Lindy to fetch, to sit, to stay, even to swim. Jake just knew how to do those things as a matter of instinct. The only thing he wouldn't do is jump into the back of the truck. He wouldn't even jump into the backseat of my Civic (which is inches off the ground). We'd spend entire afternoons trying everything we could think of to encourage him to jump. We built elaborate jump practicing stations out of tree stumps and boards. Finally, finally one day he could do it.



He was the best cat-defender around. If ever Catfish or Mullet escaped the house, Jake would always attempt to corral them and/or herd them back inside the house. If we ever let the cats out for a supervised walkabout, he'd hover right near them because he knew they weren't supposed to be outside.



When we first moved to our house in Woodville, Jake's foot got injured somehow. We never did find out what happened despite repeated searches of the yard. He was in surgery for several hours to repair it, and it was a very near thing that he got to keep his foot. The vets had him in one of those e-collars to keep him from chewing off his bandages. He made it clear that he wanted the collar off, and we took it off, but he never attempted to chew the bandage even once. He allowed me to wrap his foot in a plastic bag every time he had to go out for a bathroom break so his bandages wouldn't get wet in the grass. Once the bandages came off, he never tried licking the medicine off. He was a very patient dog.



Penny always liked hugging him because he was so soft. Lindy and Artie are both wire-textured. Lindy's kind of like an otter: slick and short haired. Jake was fluffy and almost more like a golden retriever than a lab (even though he was AKC registered pure-blood lab). Several people mistook him for a golden retriever. He was definitely more golden colored than your usual yellow lab. He was a good hugger.



He was quiet, reserved, thoughtful, lovable, friendly, snuggly, wild-and-crazy on cool fall mornings, and Tray's best friend. We will all miss him very much.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Lions

A quickie before moving on to other things: Penny worries about lions. We'll be talking about what animals might be in the woods or in the swamp or something, and she'll always add, "and lions?" And I'll say, "No, lions live in Africa." Or we'll go to the park and I'll say, "we can see some squirrels," or something similar, and she'll worry, "will there be lions?" Or like one day we were taking a walk in the woods and heard something. Penny asked, "what made that noise." Tray said, "maybe it was a squirrel." I said, "maybe it was a bird." Penny said, "or maybe it was a lion." It's just so darn cute in it's ridiculousness.

Corollary: we were listing swamp creatures one day when we passed over one on a drive and she asked me if there were piranhas in that water. I told her that I sure hoped not.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Aviation Museum

Prior to Penny's birthday we would ask her what she wanted to do for her birthday. Being a fan of Cars, she would ask to take a ride in a helicopter (like Mater). We'd told her that there was a helicopter museum nearby that we'd take her to (it's down at Ft. Rucker). Well, of course she got sick, and taking her to the museum took on even more of an urgency for us -- like we wanted to do this thing for her since she'd been through so much. So, these pictures and video are from a week or so after being home. It was pretty much one of the first things we did after she was well enough to do stuff. iPhoto tells me they are from August 1. You can tell in the video that she was still a bit "peeked." Nonetheless, she had an absolute blast. I wish we'd had the camera out when she first walked in. Y'all, the look of sheer awe on her face was priceless. It was like she almost didn't know what to do with herself. She crossed her arms in like a, "I'm so blown away, I don't even know what to do with my hands," kind of way. We were trying to take pictures with our phones here and there, but didn't get many good ones. I don't think the effect came through, but seeing her like that was so worth the trip. She very much enjoyed playing in the helicopter that they have open for you to climb around in. They also have another one upstairs that you can get in and "drive". That's the video that is attached. Afterwards, we stopped at Dairy Queen and got an ice cream cone (a rare treat).










Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Why?!?

The why questions may, in fact, be the death of me. Why, you ask? (please don't) Penny will not stop with the why questions. I always thought this phase would be really fun. I'm all scientific. Why is the sky blue? I got this. Light refraction, something something, yadda yadda. No. Penny's questions are more like:
Why is that car yellow?
I don't know, because they wanted a yellow car.
Why?
Why is that car driving that way?
[me making something up] Because they're going home.
Why?
Why is this Piggly Wiggly?
Do you mean why are we at Piggly Wiggly?
No, why is this Piggly Wiggly?
Do you mean why did we come to Piggly Wiggly instead of Food World [like we normally do]?
No, why is this Piggly Wiggly?
[Daddy jumps in:] Because they thought it would be a good name for a grocery store.
Why?

It is maddening, I tell you. Half the battle is trying to figure out what it is that she is actually asking. Most of her questions seem to me to be about motivations that people have for doing things. But if I'm not careful I can launch into a really long explanation of what I think she's asking only to find out that that wasn't what she was asking at all. And a good portion of the time the questions are about things with levels of signifance out of proportion to the urgency of her asking about them. Why is this Piggly Wiggly, indeed?

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Back to the Grind

After a rather eventful summer, school starts back tomorrow. It's very bittersweet. I look forward to having a more structured schedule, but even when feeling disgruntled at playing the umpteenth round of Candyland, I relished having so much time with Penny over the summer. I'm going to miss her!

On a side note, we got the bill from Children's Hospital. Her total stay was north of $15,000 - but insurance covered everything except the $300 copay. That feels like a narrowly averted financial crisis! (Especially with no summer paycheck.) Whew.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Check up Visit

Penny saw the cardiologist today. We were supposed to go back to Birmingham, but it seemed so outlandish to drive up there just for an echocardiogram, so we talked to Penny's regular doctor about seeing someone in Montgomery. They took her blood pressure twice, once on her arm and once on her opposite leg. Then they did an EKG. She's a petite little thing, and seeing her laying there on the table shirtless with all those twenty or so cords hanging off of her brought a few tears to my eyes (that I successfully hid), but she did great. She seemed to think it was pretty neat, and the nurse/technician was really awesome. She liked the cardiologist too. He did the actual echocardiogram. She started to cry when he turned the lights off (he didn't warn her first), but she's so used to all of this now that she settled down into quiet resignation pretty quickly. This afternoon she wanted me to take my shirt off so she could put stickers and lotion on my chest (to replicate her experience this morning)! I let her rub some on my tummy. Anyway, everything looked good. We have to go back in three months, and she has to continue on the aspirin for another three weeks or so. We are so, so happy!

Saturday, August 6, 2011

P3 Video

I saw one of these year in review videos on someone else's website a long time ago, and kept meaning to try it. I had this almost done before Penny got sick, and it would have been done in time to show at her party (had we had one - can't seem to get anybody together in the same place at the same time to call it a party). Anyway, I just finished it. It pretty well represents the essence of Penny at 2.

Penny is Three!

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